The Mother of Asma
“Abu Bakr رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهُHazrat Abu Bakr as-Siddiqرَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهُFirst Caliph; the Prophet's closest companion’s first wife was Qutayla bint Abd al-Uzza, who gave birth to Abdullah ibn Abu Bakr رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهُHazrat Abdullah ibn Abi Bakrرَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهُEldest son of Abu Bakr; intelligence runner of the Hijra followed by Asma bint Abu Bakr رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهَاHazrat Asma bint Abi Bakrرَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهَاDhat an-Nitaqayn; provisioned the Hijra; daughter of Abu Bakr, the mother of Abdullah ibn Zubayr رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهُHazrat Abdullah ibn al-Zubayrرَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهُThe first child born to the Muhajirun in Madinah; a devout worshipper and warrior… When Abu Bakr رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهُHazrat Abu Bakr as-Siddiqرَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهُFirst Caliph; the Prophet's closest companion was converted to Islam his first wife refused to follow suit and was immediately divorced.” 1 History of Islam · Vol 1 · pp. 316 — Najeebabadi — Qutayla's refusal of Islam and Abu Bakr's divorce.
The Verse of al-Mumtahina
Abdullah ibn Zubayr رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهُHazrat Abdullah ibn al-Zubayrرَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهُThe first child born to the Muhajirun in Madinah; a devout worshipper and warrior narrated: “Qutayla bint Abd al-Uzza ibn Abd Sa’d from the Banu Malik ibn Hisl tribe was still a polytheist when she brought some gifts to her daughter Asma the daughter of Abu Bakr رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهَاHazrat Asma bint Abi Bakrرَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهَاDhat an-Nitaqayn; provisioned the Hijra; daughter of Abu Bakr. The gifts included a type of badger (which the Arabs ate), some bread and some butter. However, because her mother was not a Muslim, Asma رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهَاHazrat Asma bint Abi Bakrرَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهَاDhat an-Nitaqayn; provisioned the Hijra; daughter of Abu Bakr refused to accept the gifts and even refused to allow her mother into her house. When Aisha رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهَاHazrat Aisha bint Abi Bakrرَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهَاWife of the Prophet ﷺ; the most beloved of his wives and a foremost scholar of the Ummah asked the Messenger of Allah ﷺ about this, Allah revealed the verse (Surah al-Mumtahina 60:8). The Messenger of Allah ﷺ then instructed Asma رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهَاHazrat Asma bint Abi Bakrرَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهَاDhat an-Nitaqayn; provisioned the Hijra; daughter of Abu Bakr to accept her mother’s gift and to allow her into her home.” 2 Hayatus Sahaba · Vol 2 · pp. 283 — Kandhlawi — Qutayla's visit to Asma and the revelation of Surah al-Mumtahina v.8.
Life Timeline
Divorced by Abu Bakr after she refused to embrace Islam
Visits her daughter Asma with gifts; Surah al-Mumtahina v.8 revealed
References
- Hayatus Sahaba — Kandhlawi — Qutayla bint Abd al-Uzza visits Asma; the Prophet ﷺ instructs her to receive her mother Vol 2 · pp. 283
- History of Islam — Najeebabadi — Abu Bakr's first wife refused Islam and was divorced Vol 1 · pp. 316